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hi punchingodo it can be very complicated as for my self i was merryd for 10 yers only to finde out i was liyd to and used for rasing and caring for her kids and theas are her words to me prity well the yungist lives with me he is 11 now but was 5 when she left im old fashind i beleave in merige for life and you work on it together

ive had to think of my sun and invalving a nother woman i did the rebound thing it was not good i didint like herting the other woman i regret that i have bean singl for 5 yers i have not dated or gone out with no one i was devestated by my ex wife and have gon for counseling it has helpt

i think its up to the indevigewell how long or short of time it takes to start date againe some peple it dosent seame to efekt at all others like my self hoo nows when ther redy yes its lonly but atleast im geting stronger menly emoshinly againe my sun and i deskus this dating thing and he is ok with me dating and is redy to sher a frend ship with a new frend for me a girl frend but i dont want to ceary exsess bageg in to a new realashon ship so im still working on things


jumping in to a relashon ship ask your self are you redy for it or not mently emoshenly exsedra

not jumping in to it take the time to heal your hart and minde so that you dont end up herting some one or your self and a longer healing time

love is a wonderfull thing and hope as well

but hert can last a life time



i wish you the best of luck the big thing is think about it a lott and hoo it will efekt your childron first you the other person ther famly


think just think

A formula? How about if you just go with the 'when it feels right to you' thing. Really, your the only person who knows when it is time to move on and when it is not rather than staring at a calendar.

If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.

geo

Hey Punchingodo

I can probably answer that....only cause I too was in a 1 1/2 year relationship that pretty much ended in April.... I guess in August is when I felt it was 'right' for me......

I don't think that there IS a timeframe for "licking your wounds" (as I put it )

I have to agree with Geo..... when it feels "right" then go for it.....

I think it's when we are NOT looking, that opportunity knocks on our door...sometimes it takes the freaking door off the hinges! It;s just how WE react to the invitation......

All wounds HEAL with time.......

Time IS of the essence...so I say, embrace it....

JMO

cheers

Curvy

da mn i alwase have to mutch to say that no one can read o well the abuve advice is corekt when your redy lol

sometimes<afriend said> hook your thumbs in yer waistband,smile ,say hello and push. i was under the impression that it was a little quick .in this day and age but you never know.

i don't think it's that difficult to read what you write. It's actually similar to a dialect, a short version of English. I appreciate that you take the time to respond to various things on the forum.

I find the effort he makes into "making" his grammer and spelling mistakes to be quite inventive and creative.

Absolutely!

Really there is no time...

You will know when you stop hurting..

When the feeling is right...

Thanks everyone, I am waiting patiently for the feeling to be right.
When the right person comes along I know I will be ready.
Hmmmmm, who will he be?

Hi Gordy, I havn't seen you on her for awhile. How is life in Whitehorse.

Wally what you write is not hard to read ,and what you have to say is interesting as well

hey blue you cute lil bundle of ,,,,,, how ya doin?? i been kind of busy last while.. i just bought a shack in town in case this job craters .i needed a place to live so i hv been getting the place livable,, it was a pretty bad wreck but i got it real cheap an i hv been putting 3 days a week into it.. should be o k by xmas. complete retrofit walls inside electricalplumbing i have to build a kitchen counter and then install a sink after that i will work on getting a pair of tits to hang over the sink ohh,,and maybe a wall around the bathroom some wimmen are a bit finiky about showering with ppl walking past looking in the window oops pressed the wrong button one way of learning i guess.. anyhooooo i dont think i got to worry about wimmin in whitehorse .. maybe my type of funny is not to their liking..doesnt much mater ..welcome to the yukon <<<where men are men and so are half the wimmen>>> i think the rest of the wimmen in the yukon treat the dating site like a kid with the sears wishbook they sit and look and wish turning pages with greater rapidity and checking out dealswith ever increasing scrutiny but never sending out a credit card # or going over to look into the pachage . so they sit ,petting their shedding cat talking about long walkes on the beach sipping white popskull finally getting tired turning off puter and going to bed ALONE.. not bad for a sunday morning rant hey love and kisses gordy... lets see what this stires up

How long? If the love was true then, sad to say you will never get over it. As for being able to function as a single person again it could be a day or years. Myself, it took me years to get over my ex even though I walked out on her and even now, in times of quiet loneliness I think back and wonder if maybe I should have stuck it out, then shake myself back to reality.

But your question was 'how much time would (I) take to heal?' It's an emotional thing but if I were a machine, I would take a year at least of being on my own however, on the other side of the spectrum, as a potential suitor, I wouldn't touch anybody who was less than a year out of a serious relationship if that helps.

Hi gordy, whats a traditional whitehorse dish passed down through your family and is still a favorite today

boiled moose nose and bum gut... when you roast a carribou head ,make sure you dont poke the eyeball befor it cools off a bit cause it will spurt and it can fly and realy burn you... just as good now as it was 12000 years ago when granny and grampa were schlepping their way across the bearing strait carring the latest in flint tipped spears with the newest fancy wrapped throwing handels. dragging 12 or 14 realy ugly children .. they started with 14 but 2 got eaten by a saber tooth tiger about 20 miles west of ankorage the rest made it o k and became pollitions <bad spel> in whitehorse we now live on sarah palin driveway ..kind of a comforting thought in 2012...actually were not at all backward in the yukon i used to live in dawson city ..we were the most modern city west of winnipeg and north of san fran cosco we had electric power in houses we had pay fones in 03 the streets are still mud but that is a tourist attraction with wooden sidewalks... a few ppl are still mining gold out oin the creeks and valleys. jus remblin on ,,gotta go its time fer grub gordy

Thanks Drewski, you are absolutely right about flipping the situation and considering dating someone fresh out of a serious relationship. If we wouldn't accept a rebound why would we be one!!! I have dated some since my marriage of 20+ years ended over 6 years ago and am looking for someone who is pretty much healed......